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BAD MOM, BAD MOM.

So today I took Landon in to the doctor for Pink Eye, which turns out is usually a virus infection and not bacteria.  Anyway, I asked if they could tell me if Brooklyn needed shots.  And would it put them out if she did need them, could we do it since we were there.  Sure.  She did need them, and she got them, and tears flowed.

But THEN, Dr. Veber says this to me:

Did you realize that you haven't brought Brooklyn in for any well baby check ups since she was six months old?

Gasp.  No.  I had no idea.

She encouraged me to get that scheduled, implying that she didn't have time to do right them, which sucks, but whatever.

So I got home, and was thinking about it and how is it even possible that I haven't taken her in?  Am I that negligent of her well baby checkups?  Don't I care for her needs as much as I did with my first baby?

So I called the Ped Center and asked them to give me a the list of visits she has had.  See for yourself.




Oct 8, 2009 Check up 6 months -On top of my game.
Oct 30 Cough-Bronchial Pneumonia (Yes, Pneumonia.)
Dec 15 Severe Diarrhea and Vomiting -Leading to a Hospital Stay for Severe Dehydration.  That was awful.
Feb 9, 2010 Congestion -Fever Double Ear infection Which I made her suffer though for 5 days.  We were at a Family Reunion.  Poor kid.
Feb 22 Ear Infection/Cough that hadn't cleared up from the first of the month.
March 11 Fever, cough, Cold (panicky mom, with the past events.)
April 27 Shots
June 17  Upper Respiratory Infection and Ear Infection
Today, Oct 11 Shots

Well, no wonder I haven't scheduled an appointment.  The kid was in the doctors office enough SICK will all kinds of stuff, that we could have taken up permanent residence there.   So no, I haven't purposely spent the money to see if she was okay, because obviously when she wasn't, we were there or in the hospital, or simply ENJOYING being healthy.  Poor girl.


And with that, Heck NO! I am not taking her in for any check ups.  She is spewing little sentences like "Mine Purse" and "NO, MINE".  I feel confident that she has grown correctly, and that she is otherwise healthy.  If there comes a single moment that she needs medical attention for whatever reason, I will see that she gets it.

So, no. I am not taking her in so they can:
• weigh her (which I know she weighs 24 pounds in a dry diaper)
•measure her head (which is round and bald)
•see how tall she is (height isn't one thing we think we have lots of, so short is fine and normal)
•make sure her heart is beating (it is)
•look briefly into her ears to see if they are okay (which lately, they are! and free of wax build too, thanks to my own Otoscope)
•look into her eyes and see if she follows the light (we are working on that.  Following the LIGHT can take a life time of practice and requires a lot of endurance.  But, yes she sees us fine.  And watches TV for about 10 minutes at a time as previously indicated, and I am sure by 2nd grade she will need glasses.)
•poke her tummy and bowels and peek at her privates and listen to hear heart beat in her thigh... I change that bum many times a day.  I know if there's a problem.

•to make sure she is reaching regular milestones (Ah, she climbs onto the tramp, can walk and jump, and sing. She sleeps well and long, etc. Fights with her siblings over toys.  Yep, normal behavior.)
•and ask me if I have any concerns.  (To which I would reply, "Yes, I am being financially ruined by frequenting this place.  Can't I get a family discount already.)

Well no wonder I haven't taken her in.

Comments

Rachel said…
I'm not sure what to say...I'm still laughing. :) I totally agree with you! It's hard for me to keep up on the well baby checks after 6 months. I guess I'm not as concerned after that (not that I was concerned before). So I guess that makes me a bad mom too.
Chels said…
Hahaha I hope your right about this. She is a healthy little girl and lets hope she stays like that. Lets hope they all stay like that ha.
Amber said…
I'm totally with ya SISTA!
Amy Savage said…
hahaha...love it. It probably seems like you are there more often than not! Who wants to grace the office with their presence more than necessary?!
Erin Ellsworth said…
well baby checkups are over rated. Ali has never been to our pediatrician since we moved here over 3 years age. She never gets sick, and is doing fine. Why take her in. When I called about her kindergarten shots, they said they did not have her on record so they needed to do a well baby check first which was super expensive so I just took her to district 7 to get them done.

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