Your dater. She means, YOUR DAUGHTER. Still, can we just take a minute here to laugh at how badly she wants her own Plug In Scentsy warmer? I mean, she even had it back dated. How was I supposed to get it for her when she wrote the note ten days later? We did go to PPC, just in case you were wondering. We go about once every three months. Update: As of March 15, she officially has her own warmer, purchased with her own money. She earns wax for it by keeping her room clean.